A Guide to Modern Boutonniere Styles for Grooms and Groomsmen
- Parris Balazs
- Apr 24
- 3 min read
Boutonnieres might be one of the smallest details in wedding day attire, but don’t underestimate their power to make a big visual impact. These compact floral accents can elevate a look, add texture and contrast, and reflect a groom’s personal style just as much as the bride’s bouquet.
We’re breaking down the three most popular styles we see today—pin, pocket, and full lapel—along with their pros, ideal uses, and planning tips to keep in mind (especially if little ones are wearing them too!).
🌸 The Classic Pin Boutonniere
This timeless style is affixed to the lapel using a pin and remains a go-to for formal and traditional looks. It’s elegant, compact, and allows for a wide variety of floral combinations.
Pros:
Clean, traditional aesthetic
Highly customizable in size and design
Easily worn with most suit types
Things to Consider: Pinning can be a bit tricky, especially without experience. That's why we always come prepared—and we’re experts at avoiding pricks. 😉 With the right tools and hands, a pin boutonniere will sit securely and stay picture-perfect all day.
🌿 The Pocket Boutonniere
A more modern approach, the pocket boutonniere slides directly into the suit’s breast pocket, like a floral pocket square. It's an excellent option for grooms who want something polished but less fussy.
Pros:
No pinning required
Maintains shape beautifully throughout the day
Often more secure than pinned bouts (when sized properly)
Things to Consider: Make sure the suit’s pocket is deep and structured enough to support it. And if added reinforcement is needed, don’t worry—we carry three different pin styles and sizes in our wedding planner kit, just in case.
🌼 The Full Lapel Boutonniere
One of the newest trends on the wedding scene, the full lapel boutonniere either uses a magnet or slides into a pre-designed slit on the jacket. It's modern and often chosen for luxury events.
Pros:
Ultra-secure with limited risk to fine fabric
Magnetic versions are quick to apply
Statement and fashion forward
Things to Consider: We’ve noticed that grooms and groomsmen wearing high-end suits like Tom Ford or custom-tailored styles often opt for lapel or magnetic bouts to avoid puncturing expensive fabric. It’s a great option when preserving the integrity of the garment matters just as much as the style.
💡 Planner Tip: The Ring Bearer Edition
When it comes to little ones—especially ring bearers—we always recommend a smaller boutonniere attached with a magnet. It’s safer, more comfortable, and avoids the stress of placing a pin near a wiggly child’s chest. Trust us on this one: it's a game-changer.
The Final Takeaway
Boutonnieres are more than a small floral touch—they’re a statement of intention, elegance, and coordination. When thoughtfully designed and correctly styled, they contribute to the groom’s overall look just as much as a perfectly tied bow tie or polished shoe.
Give us variety. Give us contrast. Give us dimension. And always give us those little, unexpected floral details that make each wedding day unique.
Vendor Credits
Huge thank you to the amazing creatives who helped bring these looks and moments to life:
Photography: @adrianamcgowanphotography Florals: @thepoppy.co
Photography: @rebeccajudyphotography Florals: @cwsfarmflowers
Photography: @nikkimorganphotography
Florals: @petalandfernwnc
Photography: @kelly_paradeses Florals: @americanfloral
Photography: @nikkimorganphotography Florals: @weddingsbywoolbright
Photography: @heidigravesphotography
Parris Balazs
Certified Wedding Planner
Eventfully Chic by Parris
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