Should You Do a First Look?

A First Look can ease the nerves and make space for pure joy before walking down the aisle. Photographer: Sarah Marie Photography

It’s one of the biggest decisions you’ll make about your wedding day timeline: whether or not to do a First Look.

Some couples can’t imagine seeing each other before the aisle, while others love the idea of a quiet, private moment together before the excitement begins.

At Eventfully Chic, we’ve seen both approaches, and we’ll be honest, we’re big believers in the First Look.

Here’s why.

A Truly Private Moment

When you choose a First Look, you get to experience one of the most emotional parts of your day, seeing each other for the first time, alone. No crowd, no distractions, just the two of you.

It’s a chance to soak in that once in a lifetime feeling, to breathe, and to be fully present before everything begins.

Seeing each other at the ceremony is beautiful and traditional, but it’s also a moment shared with everyone in attendance. A First Look lets you have that moment privately, and in our eyes, that intimacy makes it even more special.

And don’t worry, your fiancé will still cry when you walk down the aisle.

More Time for What Matters

When you do a First Look, you can complete most (if not all) of your photos before the ceremony. That means more time after you say “I do” to be with your guests, especially those who’ve traveled to celebrate with you.

We love seeing couples join the final few minutes of cocktail hour or enjoy a private newlywed dinner before their grand entrance into the reception. It’s a relaxed, meaningful way to start your evening together, and it keeps your timeline smooth and stress free.

Private vows and heartfelt reactions — moments that are all your own. Photographer: Devin Hayman Photography

Private Vows, Big Feelings

Many couples choose to exchange private vows during their First Look. These are often some of the most emotional moments of the day, promises whispered, tears shed, laughter shared, all without an audience. It’s deeply personal and beautifully grounding before stepping into the public moments of the ceremony.

Our Take

We’re pro First Look all the way. It’s intentional, heartfelt, and logistically smart. It allows for:

• Private vows and emotional connection before the ceremony

• A calmer, more relaxed timeline

• Extra time with guests later in the day

• The possibility of joining cocktail hour or having a private dinner moment

• Fewer nerves walking down the aisle (you’ve already seen your person!)

  
  

While there’s no “right” choice, a First Look often gives couples more breathing room, more presence, and more time to truly enjoy their wedding day together.

The calm before the celebration - the moment everything becomes real. Photographer: Nikki Morgan Photography

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